Do I need a divorce attorney?

Yes! Don't sign anything until you consult an attorney.

Can a child of 7 yrs have his own attorney for family issues of both divorced parents?

Ask your attorney to petition for a Guardian ad Litem for the child. This is an attorney who represents the best interest of the child.

Can I have my soon to be ex wife & neighbor brought up on charges for forcing open my mail box & removing mail addressed to me?

Talk to the post office first. Perhaps they can help you.

My son is now a year old and his father just walked right into his life, can he file for full custody and take him away from me?

I strongly suggest you file in Missouri asap

I want to move with my twin daughters ot of state 45 mins away.

You must give her notice and time to respond. There are specific requirements as to what is needed in this notice and it must be followed...

If I divorce or legally separate, will I have to pay alimony to my ex -wife?

It is difficult to say for sure if she will get maintenance or not. We would need to review all the assets before making an educated guess....

Divorce Question: Is spending a large amount of money to pay in full my child's student loans a dissipation?

Talk to your attorney about this. There is not enough information in your question in order to give a realistic answer. If you don't have an...

Is any of this considered child neglect?

You did not say whether you have an attorney or not. Talk to your lawyer. If you don't have one, hire one and be sure to document all of this.

Can the mother of my childs aunt get custody of my child? How can I keep my child?

You need a lawyer

The school should tell you what document you will need to obtain from the parents.