You are entitled to an equitable amount of all marital funds.

It sounds like perhaps you are the one who is not listening. In today's world, if it is money or property acquired during the marriage (except for...

It sounds like you may have a case for having all parenting responsibilities awarded to you.

You need your own lawyer to file for temporary exclusive possession of the residence.

Call the Circuit Clerk in the county that he lives in and ask them.

Talk to the Social Security office. I thought you could take his now as long as you were married for 10 years.

You cannot file for back child support if you have never had a child support case. You need to file for child support from here forward.

I would add to the above answer to get a copy of your old deed and new deed to show the lawyer. If your wife's name was on the deed, in addition...

Only for necessities. Keep receipts and be able to explain how you spent every dime. No fur coats, diamond rings, cars for kids, etc.

He would have to file his own counterpetition in the state where it is currently pending to have control over it.