A proof of service filed on your behalf means that your lawyer filed something saying she served the other lawyer with a document. If u phrased...

Can my ex switch school districts?

This answer depends on a number of issues which r too complicated to discuss here. Hire a local attorney.

Once my probation has been terminated, how soon can i leave the state?

Immediately, so long as u have no other outstanding criminal issues requiring u to stay here.

Domestic violence

The state's attorney and police r the ones who make these decisions. The law does not require them to do anything in particular.

Harassment

U need a lawyer for the op case. No, u cannot file charges against her. U should definitely go to the op hrg.

Remarriage

No, u cannot base a custody modification case solely upon remarriage. For the factors to be considered, search 750 ilcs 5/610.

I received a municipal citation for retail theft under $100. I told the debt collector for khols they had the wrong number...

No, ur punishment is not likely to be more serious. U should c a lawyer if ur charges r still pending.

I was charged with a municipal violation for retail theft and told the debt collector for kohls they had rhe wrong number..

Absent very unusual circumstances, the judge is not likely to even know that u spoke with a person on the phone. U need to hire a lawyer to answer...

If I was charged with illegal transportation of alcohol at 17, should I plead guilty? If I do will I lose my license.

Do not do anything without the advice of an attorney. Hire one immediately.

Is profit sharing or 401K figured in when considering the division of assets in a divorce in the state of Illinois?

Yes, but only for the portion that was earned during the marriage. Cohabitation doesn't count.