If the issue was not dealt with in the divorce, it is too late. It could have been reserved in the divorce, such that it could be dealt with later.

This is a short question and answer forum. Nobody can advise you without gathering additional facts. Go talk to some lawyers and hire one.

They can get a judgment but not collect out of his soc sec or va benefits except for child support........

Go to legal services and try to get a lawyer..........................................................

Serve a subpoena. Usually it is personally by a sheriffs deputy. They have to be paid a fee with the subpoena. In Illinois it is 20 cents a mile...

Yes, you show up and if she is not there, you ask for it to be dismissed.............................

No one can help you on this forum with such scant information. Find an experienced family law practitioner in Oregon and tell them all the facts.

Crimes must be reported WHERE they took place, so apparently that would be Vegas. However, prosecutors do not usually charge crimes against...

Here in Illinois, after a divorce petition is served, the Respondent has 30 days to hire a lawyer, file a response or fail to appear. You don't...

Yes, just make sure you are back by the court date...................................................