Can I be held in contempt for refusing visitation.

Yes. No, unless the op changes the child situation, they are separate. Follow the court order. The op doesn't change that.

I am a father of two kids and i am raising them

No, there is no common law marriage and no common law divorce in illinois. Call land of lincoln. They may be able to help you.

What happens to someone who gets caught shoplifting and is being charged with a felony?

Post this in the state that someone is charged in.

I'm on SSDI, and do not live with my son. Can I be appointed representative payee for my son instead of my ex-wife?

Hire a family law lawyer to get your son back here to live with you. After that has happened then you can ask to be payee and not before.

I found a case number under my name in Illinois but it doesn't say I have any court dates, what's going on?

They may have never tried to arrest you. Guaranteed if u have a police contact, you will be brought in on the warrant.

I'd like to reopen my divorce case

Your situation is urgent. Contact an attorney at once.

What happens if my boyfriend doesn't show up to his domestic violence case ?

Bad plan. No show is likely to result in the issuance of a warrant.

How do I get a court order stating that I have sole custody of my 11 Yr old son if I was never married to father?

In addition to my colleagues' direct responses to your questions, i would like to suggest that you think about adoption.

What did u take, what was the dollar amount and why did u take it?

It depends on what the contract says. If it is not clear to you, hire a lawyer.