My soon to be EX Husband took all the money out of our joint account and spent it?

You are going through a divorce. It sounds like you need a temporary order to deal with this issue. Discuss it with your lawyer.

Will the judge dismiss the case if both of us not present at the hearing?

What do u want to happen? You should tell your lawyer and follow your lawyer's advice. No one here knows what documents your lawyer did or did...

Should I get an Order of protection or wait?

Wait until your consultation. Corporal punishment that does not leave marks is not against the law, nor is it against the law for him to spank...

Possibly. This texting app can likely be traced through an ip address. As for the weapon, I do not know.

Parenting time conflict

Not sure what a narc is. Would that be a narcotics addict or a person who tells on another? Absent language in your parenting agreement, it is...

What can I do about false abuse claims?

If u cannot afford a lawyer, u r not going to come out very well on this one. You would need a lawyer, gal, and probably a custody evaluation, all...

Does that carry jail time?

On a misdemeanor, potential jail time is up to 364 days in jail. On a felony, typically a class 4 here, 1 to 3 years in doc.

Parole?

There is not enough information here to answer this question. When did he get out on parole? What was he in doc for? What was he arrested for in...

My husband wants a divorce and now I want him out my apartment

You do need a court order. However, even if u get one, if u cannot pay the terms of the lease, u would likely be evicted.

Yes, you can file a Motion for Temporary Exclusive Possession of the Marital Residence. You should get a lawyer to file one for you.