I would call the police and seek their advice. I would think you would want them removed. The question is does a joint owner want them there?

My last ditch resort is to send it via fb messenger. Does she have that? Email or any other electronic accounts?

She needs a report from a dr. that says she is unable to manage her personal or financial affairs. She is likely developmentally disabled, not...

Hire your own QDRO Attorney that specializes in these only and has military experience. This is not a DIY project.

Do you have close neighbors who can pretty much say she is home every night and he does not have her? Or does he have close neighbors who say the...

Call the circuit clerk in the county where you filed......... ........ m...........................

I believe the new SAFE T ACT applies only to criminal cases and not to civil cases.....................

Yes, that used to happen a lot. Not as much now since defendants are entitled to pretrial release most of the time.

I agree with the above lawyer's comments. However, your question was about what you can do. You can call the police. You can also call DCFS. ...

Probably. Hire a local lawyer asap to stop him from spending all of it..............................