My daughter is an adult and she wants my husband, her stepfather, to adopt her. We have been estranged for 5 years.

Yes. When u r married, he has to have your consent. As an adult, he does not have to have your consent.

How do I go about getting my husbands name of my daughters birth certificate?

An adoption will include a name change. It will be a lot more expensive for attorneys fees and newspaper fees to do two separate cases.

How can my husband adopt my daughter

See a lawyer. The lawyer will go through the bases upon which his parental rights can be terminated.

She cannot leave until the court has discharged her case. She is a ward of the court until age 21, unless discharged before that.

My best guess would be that if u r not physically present to dispute the claim, no one will notice. But that is just a guess...

Call the school and talk to them. Their policy may be that you can go if it is your parenting time but not on hers. This should be an issue...

Can I get my ticket dismiss if the office put the wrong sex?

No, that will not invalidate your ticket.

How long does it take for a judge to sign for a pretrial release ?

No one except his attorney can possibly answer that question for you.

My son moved out of our house and into a friends house .he is 17 His friends parent or ok with this .

Yes, u r responsible for him until he is 18 years old.

Can a parent get custody of their child back if they have had no communication with the child for over a year ?

If u file an adoption petition, u might be able to terminate their parental rights. See a local adoption lawyer.