What can I do? Is this normal? Or should I just wait?

First, I assume you are not represented by an attorney. If you are, you need to contact the attorney. If you are not represented, I suggest you...

Should I still take the Homestead Exemption in Bankruptcy Ch. 7 just to be safe?

Assuming you filed a bankruptcy or intend to do so, you should always assert available exemptions in assets, notwithstanding that there may not be...

Can I dismiss my case and not be forced to sell my homes? And if I dismiss what happens to my attorney fees?

I'm a bit troubled by your saying that you were "able to save both homes". A chapter 13 case requires you to submit all of your disposable income...

Assuming Kirby's paper work is in order, Kirby probably has a purchase money security interest in the vacuum. Although your personal liability for...