I filed for divorce with no children or property, I did request $2000 to be returned to me, can I send a letter withdrawing?

Of course you can. Just notify your lawyer or tell the court.

If my ex-wife's attorney accepts a refund check she received in the mail addressed to just me. Is this mail theft or misconduct?

Nothing was done wrong. The attorney acted properly.

I want to divorce my wife our house isn't paid for. i want to stay in the home and have her leave. how do i go about doing this?

Hire an attorney. File for divorce. Ask to buy her out of the home. She will not have to leave in most cases until the divorce is granted. You...

What constitutes a substantial change in circumstances to modify alimony payments?

You definitely should file to reduce or terminate maintenance based on your substantial change in income. Go see a lawyer today and get going. ...

Me and my ex both haven a kid, do either get child support?

Well the case will be set for a hearing date for child support or child support could have already been set when you did not show up. You need a...

My husband threatens to ask for spousal and child support. We haven't been married for 10 years. Can a judge grant this?

Anyone can ask anything but that does not mean he will get it.

Yes the courts encourage reconciliation.

My husband and I have not had sex or shared a bedroom, bank account or anything else besides a residence in over a year.

There is no waiting time in Illinois. You can file today.

My husband refuses to sign the divorce papers because he thinks the child/spousal support is too high. What can I do?

You indicated in comments that you have an attorney. Your attorney should answer your question and handle your husband's resistance. There is...

Is there Pro bono lawyers for divorce that will fight for my rights?

Also contact CARPLS online to help steer you in the right direction for legal aid. Excellent source for resources.