What's most important to do 1st? I'm Pro-se in divorce. For a status court date, before trial gets set? Need to prove assets.

Seek legal aid in your local area. We cannot answer all your questions or coach you. We are not pro bono lawyers either. Use your online skills...

Do I have any recourse if my ex assumed our marital property without my knowledge leaving me note liable and she makes late pmts

You need to take her back to court to enforce your decree. The problem is she cannot refinance if the home is in foreclosure. You cannot get off...

This forum is really not the place to discuss your case which seems to include complex issues. Yes you will get a portion of his pension. You...

How should i go about filing for a divorce?

So sorry to hear that. Get in with a lawyer ASAP and file under irreconcilable differences. Get the case going right away.

Am I entitled to half of the escrow refund?

Escrow for what? Taxes? Look to your divorce papers for who gets that fund. Usually that goes with the house but your judgment might state...

I hired a divorce attorney but never signed a fee contract. Do i still have to pay her?

You have the right to terminate her. She cannot sue you for monies she has not earned.

Post divorce visitation

No. You have to go back through the domestic relations court. Consult a local divorce attorney.

I want my wife return home with my child. i don't want divorce i only want to take legal action just to inform her she did wrong

You cannot stop your wife from leaving you or divorcing you. In the US women can freely travel without their husbands and can file for divorce...

Nd a divorce cant afford it

Contact legal aid in your local area. Go on the court website for resources and the local bar association and the Texas Bar Association. There...

Divorce was completed in Apr 2009 but i noticed no where in the decree or other documents shows the end date for alimony.

It could be permanent alimony. You better take your divorce papers in to meet with a lawyer in person.