Will i be left homeless without a car

You need to consult a ivories attorney. Since you have a permanent job why would you be homeless. The home is marital and subject to division as...

Will a person on disability lose their monthly checks if they inherit some money from a relative?

This is a social security question.

What is the legal age in Illinois, for a child to be able to choose which parent they want to live with?

There is no guarantee ever that a judge will talk to a child at any age.. The age a child decides in Illinois is 18

Do I have grounds to modify visitation to no overnights and only on NCP's days off?

You need to get in with a family lawyer and discuss. There could possibly be grounds here for an Order of Protection. That could be done quickly.

Sue my wife for supporting

It is highly unlikely you will receive support of any type. You file for divorce where you live not where you were married.

Do i need to take focus on children?

Yes.

Either borrow money to retain counsel or contact legal aid in your area. you need to file for divorce and ask for chid suport, maintenance, and...

Dismissed misdemeanor domestic battery enhanced to class 4 felony domestic convicted at trial then amended to misdemeanor after?

this question needs to be discussed with your lawyer and not online.

Parenting time

You two joint parents need to work this out. Set up a mediation session to resolve this matter.

My ex-husband wants to take away my alimony check that he gives me. He has a new wife and both ork.

There is not enough information to accurately answer your question. it all depends on the Judgment. Take your divorce papers to a divorce...