How many visits in a row can my ex have before he could have my child support case dropped?

The number of visits is irrelevant.

I am a father of three sons, I am going to explain that I had a drug problem and so did my wife and our children were taken by

Your facts are somewhat confusing. Take the notice from DCFS and any other paperwork you have to a lawyer who defends DCFS cases. If an adoption...

Child support extra curricular question

You did not state if there is a court order ordering you to pay the extracurricular activities. The court cannot make you pay unless there is a...

Unless there is a court order stating you must drive the visiting parent does ALL the driving.

What basis does ex have for filing motion to revoke my mid week visitation?

There is absolutely no way we can answer that question. Read the motion and talk to your lawyer.

Is my husband required to maintain his level of income while paying spousal maintenance?

That depends on more facts that are not in your statement. Go in person and talk to your lawyer.

Is there any way to have child support arrears forgiven?

There is program called Operation Clean Slate. I am not sure if you qualify. It is State of Illinois program. Just google it.

How do you get different judge?

I would just like to add that just being friends with a Judge's family is not necessarily a conflict. You are however entitled to a Substitution...

How do I get the money from a settlement 4 years ago?

No that happens all the time if "they" you speak of means the plan administrator. Contact you lawyer to use a QDRO expert to complete.

I have a set agreement and custody with my childs father. Can I take him back to court and win full custody?

Too complex a matter to handle in this online forum. Go talk to a lawyer in person.