Can you get a larger divorce asset settlenment in illinois if you prove domestic viloence in your relationship?

NO.

Is it legal for my exwife and her new husband to use my credit to get them a new house?

If she is on the loan, she can get her own statement from the lender.

How can I file for a divorce when my husband lives in Florida and I live in Alabama?

Contact the bar association in your county and ask if they have a lawyer referral program, or other direction to give you.

Can I take my spouse to small claims court?

I doubt it.

Probably not.

I have the divorce papers. and im so confused. i need a checklist to go from so i know i am sending him all the proper papers.

Contact the bar association in your county and ask for its direction. You might also consult with a divorce lawyer.

My now x lawyers secretary gave my case file to my stepmother without permission & is helping my ex husband!!??

Your ex-attorney is responsible for the breach of confidentiality on the part of his secretary. They will not get away with this. Contact...

I am beneficiary, but insurance company says that insurance should go to my daughter.

Consult with a general practitioner attorney in your community. Your question seems to involve insurance and contract law more than it does divorce...

Is it illegal to record my phone conversation?

Consult with a criminal attorney in your community.

Can my husband file a divorce in two states at the same time?

He cannot properly have two divorce cases pending. Consult with an attorney in your community.