I am looking to get a divorce have not seen him since the end of 2007 and i am currently unemployed what do i do to get started.

You can file for divorce and serve him by publication.

In Illinois, Is a defered 401k conversion to a Roth 401k included in taxable income when determining child support payments?

Probably not. You are not taking a distribution from the plan, as such. You are merely transferring funds.

If I got a same-sex marriage in another state 2010 and now divorcing in Illinois where it is a civil union as of July this year.

If your question is whether you can get a divorce in IL, the answer is YES. This assumes that IL has the necessary jurisdiction. The Civil Union...

Yes, you can be deemed to be separated even though the two of you are still residing under the same roof. The "separation" is proven by way of...

I AM US CITIZEN STUCK IN THE MIDDLE OF A MARRIAGE WHERE THE BRIDE DOESN'T WANT TO GIVE DIVORCE & HAS LEFT THE COUNTRY. SHE'S HER

If you want a divorce, file for a divorce. From the limited facts you provided, there is nothing stopping you from getting a divorce, whether she...

If an arrears is being paid down by a court order is it still considered arrears?

Yes. You do not have to sign the tax form allowing him to have the 2012 exemption(s) because he is still in arrears.

Husband of less than 2 years had an affair while we where engaged, how do I go about getting a divorce? would I get alimony?

In order to get a divorce, you have to have grounds for divorce. You have not recited any behavior during the marriage on his part that would give...

Do I have to continue paying child support if I signed paternity, discovered she is married and divorced while pregnant?

You must hire a lawyer ASAP.

Show up where, and for what? You have not provided enough facts for an attorney to give you a proper answer.

Do I have legal recourse against my husband's divorce lawyer?

No. Based upon the facts you have provided, you have no recourse against your spouse's lawyer.