Can I take our youngest 2 children out of town for a 2-3 wk vacation.

Yes.

What steps can I take to obtain a portion of my husbands pension since we are almost at final stage of divorce process?

You need a lawyer badly. Contact the bar association in the county where your case is pending, and ask them for their suggestions and direction....

Help getting a same sex divorce.

-What is your question? In what state(s) do you and your spouse live? You may or may not have a jurisdiction issue. Consult with a lawyer in person...

How long the QDRO draft takes to be back from the company?

Ask your lawyer for his/her best estimate, and be patient. This can take a long time, and certainly more than ten days.

At the least, retain another lawyer to set the judgment aside.

What kind of support can I get if I want to leave my wife which is the breadwinner

It is impossible to answer your question without knowing more facts. How much does your spouse earn? What are your reasonable needs? Any many more...

How can spouse change location of court for divorce on her own?

As per Cook County Local Court Rule, it was your spouse's right to move the case downtown. You cannot have it changed back to Bridgeview.

My ex wife foreclosed on the house that was in my name after the court awarded her the house in the divorce.

Consult with a local attorney, but it sounds like you are one of the thousands of ex-spouses nationwide who have gotten caught up in the same...

What options do I have to avoid bad credit after divorce if I have a mortgage house with my husband?

There are two ways your name can removed from the home mortgage note, and both require that the loan be paid off. The home must be sold, or your...

Can I divorce my husband without losing my home.

You have not provided enough facts for a lawyer to be able to answer your question properly. Contact a local attorney, and explain all of your...