Can a divorce be finalized When the only notification of the divorce preceedings was via public publication?

Service by publication is proper under certain circumstances. Consult with a local lawyer to see if it was OK in the situation you are inquiring...

How do I collect money owed in a divorce?

See my previous answer to this question.

Hire a local lawyer, and take him back to court. You can ask that he be ordered to pay your fees, but this is certainly not guaranteed.

Yes.

My husband's lawyer told to not call my home to avoid reach a amicable divorce in the same time she knows that by doing

Your question is confusing. Please make it easier to understand.

Will my spouse get half and/or alimony?

Consult in person with a local divorce lawyer who will be able to learn all of your facts, and be in a better position to give you a responsible...

In the event of a divorce how are the assets dealt with?

Consult with a local divorce attorney. He or she will be able to gather the all necessary facts in order to give you a responsible answer.

Can I press charges on kids for criminal damage to motor vehicle

Whether or not to prosecute the children is up to the state's attorney. You can try to press charges, but the choice is up to them.

I won a case in small claims court because of default. Do I have to send other party the order?

No.

How can I get enforcement for 750 ILCS 65/16?

The odds are you wouldn't have this problem if you had a lawyer.