Do I have grounds to modify visitation to no overnights and only on NCP's days off?

If you can prove what you are saying, you have a strong case for getting some relief from the court.

You can be charged with the crime of bigamy.

When i file for divorce do i also have a custudy hearing if he left the country?

You would ask for custody as part of the divorce case. You need a lawyer's assistance to get you past the jurisdictional issue you will be facing.

Do i need to take focus on children?

This depends on your judge, but I recommend playing it safe.

I have a mortgage that is upside down, with HSBC, they have denied me a second modification, not a freddie or a fannie

Do yourself a favor and make an appointment to see a bankruptcy lawyer. Your question deserves a more detailed response than you can reasonably...

Should I ask for proof of an annuity my ex was supposed to set up in the event of his death?

Demand it in writing by certified mail. If you do not get a response within a reasonable time, take him back to court.

This depends entirely upon the laws in your state, and your question does not indicate where you live.

My home is going to foreclosure can the reinstatement amount be negotiated?

It is doubtful.

Do i need to give my dog back after it was given to me 5 months ago because they were moving to a new house?

It is unfortunate for the son, but the dog was gifted to you, and therefore belongs to you.

Parenting time

This is a relatively common occurrence. You have a valid point, and can take her back to court to get a judge's ruling. If you have joint custody,...