Moved out, married 21 years, have a 7 year old that's ours, want visitation, she won't let me unless I pay large $ weekly.

You need a lawyer desperately.

Child grads in 2014 and is 18 if goes to college right after can my ex get any more child support if nothing in div papers

It doesn't have to be in the judgment. Contributing to college expenses and non-minor maintenance (support) can be required under a state law -...

Vacatur of Divorce Judgment in IL

If both parties agree, a judgment can easily be modified to conform to what they intended it to say. This is true no matter how long ago the...

Can I legally drop my spouse (2 years separated) from my employer plan durin open enrollment?

Don't do it. You run the risk of getting wiped out if he were to incur large hospital bills while you are still married.

Is present income used to calculate reserved child support?

To me, it stands to reason that your child support obligation for a given period should be determined by your net income for that period.

Can a lawyer from North Carolina represent me if I live in Illinois?

Yes, you can use a NC lawyer to sue a NC resident. However, you will have to travel to NC whenever your testimony is needed.

What happens if a parent with residential custody can no longer financially afford a residence for their children?

This is a tragic situation, and I do not think that a typical resolution exists for it. However, she does not automatically lose custody when she...

The other attorneys have done an excellent job of answering the processing part of your question. I will attempt to address the separation...

Do I only need to file a Motion and Notice of Motion with the court requesting the judge change custody & stop child support?

For starters, present a petition to the court to suspend your child support obligation while the child is living with you. For safety's sake, get...

Do I have to tell anyone that I got remarried?

Yes, yes, and yes.