Judge goes to work for attorney law firm ?

While your explanation of the facts is quite articulate, I think it is impossible for you to get the answers you need from this Forum. Avvo...

Since i dont want the divorce but he does, can he be reliable for my attorney fees.?

You really haven't provided enough facts to determine your soon-to-be ex's obligation to contribute to your attorney's fee. However, and depending...

I have a very complex divorce case, I have been married for 25 years. What are my rights as a wife? Am I entitled to the house?

This forum cannot provide you with the answers you need. If anyone needs a lawyer, it's you. You cannot afford not to have one.

Why is this process moving along?

From what you have described, the only practical answer is for your daughter to get another attorney.

Can a mother refuse to let a child to go see the father?

She has every right to refuse to let him see the child UNTIL a judge says otherwise.

A Memorandum of Judgment allows the attorney to garnish and/or attach pay, assets, and, among other collection devices, place a lien on your home

Is it possible to secure a lawyer solely on the strength of the "leveling the playing field" provisions in section 501(c-1)?

The law does make it possible for you to seek such a fee award from your spouse, but I suspect you will have great difficulty finding a lawyer who...

Can I change the locks on my house when my husband is at work?

Until a judge says otherwise, you have the right to lock him out, but he has the right to hire a locksmith and lock you out.

If you was married in 1988 and your divorce paper have 1998 on decree paper are you divorce

A typo such as this is not going to invalidate your divorce.

Can someone get divorce without your knowledge?

If he knew where you lived at all times, then he cannot get a valid marriage without your knowing it.