Do I still have to pay ex spouse equity?

That is a question for your attorney. But he may be entitled to some contribution for his efforts

How can I change my kids last name?

Unless the father agrees or the child is adopted by another you are prohibited from doing that

How is a child representative typically agreed upon in a child custody divorce case? Is the selection subject to negotiation?

I agree; you should definitely talk to your lawyer. Only he could let you know how a child rep was appointed. Generally speaking however, if the...

I agree. Very difficult to help with so little facts. I will however say that fathers and mothers, depending on the facts have equal rights but...

Does my husband have to pay lawyer/filing fees?

Attorney fees generally are paid through the marital estate. If he controls all assets he will need to contribute to your fees. Given the...

Do my kids have to travel for visitation during Covid?

I completely agree. However, given the extreme number of cases and the pandemic being out of control you really need to call an attorney asap

Your Judgment will allow you to resume the use of your maiden name so you should wait

Safe sleeping quarters for child visitation?

See comment but I agree with counsel

Modifications of support are usually retroactive back to date of filing

Yes you have rights. Call an attorney asap