Can I right in my check memo..Loan to Jane Doe attorney retainer in agreement to also give balance of said deferred comp money

The memo will not alter the original agreement. As stated, this is a myth.

My wife put an order of protection on me and is accusing me of property damage to her car even has a witness willing to testify

Bring the emails. They are likely not going to be allowed, but if you have them already then there is no harm in bringing them. She got the OP...

I went to jail at twenty for using a stolen credit card. Upon release on probation, I stupidly left the state

You're not necessarily looking at time here. There are a number of factors to consider and, absent detailed information (which shouldn't be...

How do you get a person charged for steeling

You do not bring charges; states attorneys do. All you can do is report her conduct and let the police take it from there. If they find anything...

This can be scary. Just the fact of a MTD looming out there can be daunting. Basically, you are going to have a hearing on their motion and the...

Judge, Plaintiff Attorney hear my mediation status hearing on wrong day.

There is an element of human error in every system and the legal system is no exception. Clerks, attorney, and even Judges recognize this and they...

Does Illinois permit "side bar" or private meetings in chambers for orders of protections?

This is pretty unclear and I am not sure if I am answering the questions you are asking, but Illinois generally allows "side bar" chamber meetings.

Will i be responsible for damages in case of an accident?

There were have to be an agency relationship in order for you to be held jointly responsible.

I put an order of protection on my husband. I am accusing him or breaking my car side mirrors.

If you keep sending emails (and thus violating the terms of the OP) then you are demonstrating that you do not have any rational fear that requires...

Can my mom sign over her parental rights to my older sister on my dads side

This would be infinitely easier, faster and cheaper if you get consent.