What can I do to preemptively protect my self to get full custody of our child and the house in a possble divorce situation?

There's not a lot to do to be proactive regarding custody, I wrote an article abut what to do before divorce here...

Contesting back child support

Monday call a lawyer ASAP! You have some options and most lawyers will give you a free consultation.

I need help with my contest divorce

Sounds like bad luck all the way around. On Monday check with the bar association for a list of organizations that does pro bono work.

My 17 wants to move out when 18, but is still in High School

Most states 18 ends your control over the child, my guess is that is true in California.

After putting restraining order, can they lie and say you called their place of work or do they have to prove it

Blake has a good answer, can they lie? Well sounds like they did. Listen to Blakes advice.

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Why does a court system throw a paternity case out because the father can not be found?

Sounds like your hoping the state will act like your lawyer, they wont. Instead hire a good local family lawyer and there will be options to serve...

What can i do about this

Phillip put a great answer, listen to him.

She set me up with lies and false statements acting as if I was going to harm her and took out a 50b

Sounds like you know, call a lawyer on Monday to walk you through your rights. Most will give a free consultation.

I was not read my miranda rights for shoplifting under $50 worth of merchandise.

Yes. The store cops aren't obligated to read you your Miranda rights,money state agents, like the police).

I remained silent when advised of miranda and my lack of responce was protraid as nan admition of guilt in court by the officer

What? It sure what the question is, but generally it talking to the police can't be construed as an admission of guilt( at least in our part of the...