How is money split from selling a house

I'm not licensed in NY, but both of those answers seem well reasoned and thought out. Listen to them and get to a NY lawyer.

Can my sons dad be found in contempt of court for not buying him a winter jacket and boots?

sounds like good advice to me and the attorneys seem to know their stuff.

Can I seek disestablishment of paternity with 2 verified DNA tests stating that I am not the biological father?

Both of those answers sound very good. Consider yourself lucky because in Minnesota you have 2 years to "disestablish" paternity. after that, no...

Sounds like Michael knows his stuff. Listen to him.

Interstate child support modification - whose jurisdiction to make changes and what immediate actions can be taken?

ahhh..the tricky UCCJEA question! This is always tricky because often one lawyer won't know the laws in both states and may not feel comfortable...

Abuse?

Kathlyn seems to know her stuff and is giving you good advice. Contact a Colorado lawyer sooner rather than later. Good luck.

Does my husband need to adopt my son?

I'm not licensed in Florida, but both of those answers seem very common sense.

How far in arrears do I need to be, with 3 support orders, before I am jailed? Does being a fulltime student have any bearing?

Cindy gave you a great answer! listen to her.

We can not locate papers granting us custody/guardianship. We can not remember attorney name. Are papers on file somewhere ?

In most states you can contact the court house and get copies.

I want to move out of state. Is there a form I can get my daughters father to sign that will stand up in court if need be?

Good comment, this is too important to risk making mistakes, spend the couple of dollars and have a local lawyer do it properly.