I was charged with over 1.4 grams of marijuana in motor vehicle and paraphernalia. Can i get it dropped or reduced somehow?

Yes it is possible the matter may be 'dropped or reduced'. I urge you to confer with an attorney at this time so she/he can assist you and advise...

Drug charge: 3 years prob with requirements or 12 mnts one day for stay. I want to execute. how do I go about this?

You post is not clear as to your case status. If your case is pending,, do turn to your attorney and express your desire and discuss matters....

Can a person violate their OFP with facebook posts?

Further detail of the matter needs to be known. Yes, certainly at times an OFP is violated due to a respondent's online conduct.

How long can my ex skip visits before its reasonable for me to revoke/reduce them?

Since you stated this is 'very hard' on the children, I urge you to confer with an attorney right away as to your family's personal circumstances....

Does an officer have to leave some kind of documentation when taking possible evidence from your home?

An inventory of the items will be made. Depending upon the full circumstances you may presently be able to obtain a copy of the list.

Would i have a case? And, what type of lawyer would i need?

You may 'have a case'. An attorney who handles personal injury or who handles general practice legal matters presumably may assist you. We avvo...

Further details need to be known. I suggest you contact an attorney located in your area.

I was terminated without reason or notice. What constitutes as wrongful termination?

Generally, wrongful termination means the employer's actions were illegal in nature or were otherwise violative of the the employer's own policies...

What form do I send to my Jeweler as a DEMAND to return my necklace and the consequences or list intent if not received.........

There would be no such 'form' as to the circumstances you describe. Certified mail - Return Receipt Requested is a good starting point.

How can I "persuade" my ex-boyfriend to sign over the title to my car?

If you are attempting to handle this matter on your own many courts have 'Self Help' staff who do not provide legal counsel. You may secure...