Both, one, or neither is correct. That decision is up to the county attorney and/or a judge/jury.

Great. Do you have any questions about this situation?

Unless the mark from the chalupa is permanent, it’s unlikely that you’ll find an attorney willing to help. Your best option might be to try to get...

Yes, you should hire an attorney immediately. That attorney can help you accurately determine his income.

You need to figure out a way to afford an attorney ASAP. Nobody is going to help you for free.

Plan on your kids being removed from you wherever you are.

If you fail to comply with a court order, you could be held in contempt and sent to jail.

Yes. DHS can remove your kids from you based on what you've described.

That’s far too complex of a question to answer through this forum.

Yes. Your mom’s parental rights need to be terminated first. Or, if you wait 2 years, you can skip that part.