If you don’t know how to contact him, you’ll have difficulty with sending him the bills.

How do you send him bills? USPS, email, etc are good options. If you don’t know where he lives or his phone or email address, your guess on how to...

File something with the Court. If you don't have an attorney, hire one immediately.

Bringing a three year old to court is a terrible idea.

It's unlikely that your case will be dismissed. And, yes, your PO can keep you from being around your boyfriend.

You can probably appeal but that depending on what order was entered. Hiring an attorney would be wise.

You file a petition to modify custody. Hiring an attorney is a good place to start.

If your ex husband works for cash and doesn’t file taxes, your chances of recovering anything are very small.

Yes. DHS can remove your kids from you outside of Iowa.

They’ll likely stop charging him rent if he returns to prison.