If my child is not transitioning well for parenting time with his mother can FOC force me to put my child into therapy?

Be careful here. If she is truly having problems then you want her in therapy but do not over reacted as a lot of children will adjust without a...

FBI Fingerprinted..?

Time is really not a factor but the speed is definitely not a bad thing as nothing came up that needed to be cross checked.

Do I have to consult w my ex when choosing a therapist for my child?

If you have joint legal you do and if you can not agree on one you need the court's intervention.

My father & uncle molested me when I was 10 yrs old.I am in my 30s now can I press any type of charges or sue them for damages?

Unfortunately you are time barred.

Call the Friend of the court as Mr. Brennan suggest or DHS (CPS) or legal aid. These places may know of one.

Will this show on a military background check?

You should be clean.

Is it possible to fight and win against parenting time?

Not on these facts. You may be able to slow it down through a transitional phase.

Do i have to name my husband as my primary beneficiary on my non-erisa plan,

Yes you can.

Please give me your best input on the situation

Your only option is to appeal the sentence to the circuit court. This would be tough to win.

Can I be held responsible for late husband's credit card debt held in his name alone?

Not as to the creditor. However it will be considered marital debt in a divorce and will be considered in the final settlement.