What’s going to happen?

You are charged and will have to defend yourselves. Hire defense counsel to do so or at least minimize your damages.

Extradition is possible, and there are no guarantees except this will not go away on its own and your should start the process to take care of it.

Perhaps, but I would suggest you have an attorney look into the issue as it is an order of the court.

Why would the judge issue a bench warrant for absconding probation 18 years after the 2 year max discharge date

Too many issues with too little facts for an opinion except that you should hire an attorney and rectify this matter.

If I get a probation violation for the second time, can the probation officer drop the violation?

If you have completed AND provide proof my opinion is the violation will be dismissed.

Will I be arrested for a warrant if I go see my attorney?

It is very doubtful that your attorney will call the police, she will doubtless advise you to turn yourself in and clear up the absconding issue.

If someone was being detained and waiting extradition on a warrant the other state wouldnt pick you up is warrent still vaild?

Yes the warrant is still valid and active. When he is picked up and detained anywhere in the country the same process will be repeated, and...

How can I get charged with home invasion when I lived there and 2 weeks before got kicked out with out a eviction?

You are going to have to hire an attorney and defend yourself as you have been charged. It appears you may have defenses.

It might be possible to have your probation terms modified, perhaps to non-reporting, or the term reduced. The decision will be necessarily the...

Do I have a case?

This is a medical malpractice or professional negligence issue. You need to engage a lawyer and medical expert to determine if the standard of care...