What counts as a cash payment??

I do not believe so. Cash meaning literally - CASH. Not money in retirement accounts, bank accounts, stocks or bond - literally cash. Whose...

My former employer has sent me a notice to pay him back $20k in training charges.

I would not imagine it would be a criminal matter, but rather just a civil breach of contract. However, it's an interesting issue - whether...

Potentially. But you would have to read the entire disclaimer on their service contract. I would definitely talk to an attorney.

If the record of the divorce states that it is pending what does that mean

You are correct. If there was no divorce decree signed by the Judge, you are still married.

Can I get a modification to my joint custody if the other parent wants to move 2 hours away & doesn't want to give up custody?

That's a valid concern. If he moves 2 hours away, the joint custody may become problematic and it may be wise to have a court hearing. However, I...

On Chapter 7 can I still retain the house if mortgage company has filed foreclosure?

No, you need Chapter 13 for this. See an experienced bankruptcy attorney ASAP.

I have full legal and physical custody. In 2014 I filed for relocation and it was not appealed. Do I need to file to move again?

Yes, you do. At least 90 days prior to anticipated move.

Car reported stolen on carfax

I would see an attorney to evaluate the possibility of suing a dealership that sold him the car.

What can I do if a dealer sold me a vehicle at advertised mileage and the title is double that?

I would surely see a consumer protection attorney to evaluate the case as you may have grounds for a lawsuit against the dealership.

What recourse do I have.

It's a little unclear - if you state that you purchased it using a credit card, then why would they be taking it out of checking account?