What are my rights as the custodial parent?

File an Juvenile Paternity case and do establish your rights so there would be no confusion and misinterpretation at a later point.

Can my kid's mother and I create a legal agreement to move with stipulations?

Can you? Sure. Do you want to create a non-ambiguous document? You may think twice before you do it yourself - it's a pretty important document....

Talking to a bankruptcy attorney would be a great start. The attorney will need some more information to determine your income and eligibility, but...

I doubt court will actually HOLD the money. I think what is more attainable is requesting that court directs escrow company to hold that money...

My 11 year old daughter wants to live with me?

You need to sit down with family law attorney. Unfortunately at 11 years old she can't testify in court and express her opinion. You need other...

What can we do?

Can you clarify? So he was deported even though charges were dropped? Is that the charge from 2006 you are talking about?

If you have the proof of making payments, you may have a shot at the court. Problem is that small courts are limited to how much you can claim. See...

Should be a marital asset, especially if that was earned DURING marriage. See an attorney.

If it's not a court order, Police doesn't have to recognize it as a binding contract.

Is this Right?

You need to look into filing a juvenile paternity action ASAP. Contact an attorney first thing in the morning, it surely is alarming