Need direction, I filed a police report and proceeded to press charges, which then got submitted to the proscuters office.

You can possibly look into filing a civil claim, but this will be hard to do since you are married. Consult a local attorney to see if they can help.

Last week I was shopping at Walmart. When I tossed some make up into the cart, unknowingly to me, they landed in my purse...

The letter is most likely a civil collection letter. That is different from a criminal citation. Consult a local attorney who can review the letter...

Can I get a DUI expunged from my record?

No. Traffic offenses cannot be expunged in Ohio, including OVI. Do what you can to hire the best possible attorney to fight the violation.

Can a Cdl holder get his/her cdl's back on a first offense OVI and refused to take the breathalyzer

You need good experienced OVI counsel. Lima municipal court can be tough to deal with. Do some research and see who you are comfortable with.

Can a Cdl holder get his/her cdl's back on a first offense OVI and refused to take the breathalyzer

You need good experienced OVI counsel. Lima municipal court can be tough to deal with. Do some research and see who you are comfortable with.

Shoplifting at Walmart.

Chances are at this point she will not be criminally charged since she was not cited immediately, but there is no guarantee this will not happen....

Questions about OVI Reduction and Pre Trial.

Since you have an attorney you need to ask him/her. That attorney should be familiar with your court and with the facts of your case to give you...

That's the right way to go. Having an attorney help you will increase your chance of success.

What kind of changes can/would be filed for retail fraud/theft

The most likely charge would be a theft charge. The degree of offense depends on the amount allegedly stole. My advise to your friend would be to...

If you were cited, hire a good OVI defense attorney. My suspicion is that there may be some confusion over the ticket, I'm surprised you were cited...