What should I do my visa revoked ext denied can I get f1 to stay in usa??

If your visa has been revoked and your extension denied you will not have much success in getting an F1 to stay in United States.

Yes traveling on advance parole is permitted with a valid passport and no other issues.

Retaining US citizenship?

You son remains a US citizen. There are no retention requirements.

What form(s) should a U.S Resident fill out to petition children over 21?

You begin the process with the form I-130 for each child.

Your husband will need to apply for a visitor visa on his own merit. This will be difficult as he will need to establish his non-immigrant intent....

License determinations are made by the department of motor vehicle for the state in which you reside. The automatic extension of the EAD card may...

You may apply 90 days prior to having lawful resident status for 5 years OR 90 days prior to having lawful resident status for three years if...

Yes you may reapply for DACA.

Can I vacate(to not continue) f1 visa?

Stop attending school as an F1 and the F1 is ended

Do I need to get an 1551 stamp on my passport?

The valid I-797 extension and the expired resident card are sufficient,