1-130 is approved, fulfilling a 2 yr HRR after a J-1 program, Wife is a US citizen. any chance of B2 getting approved?

Unlikely you will be granted B2 but no harm to resident petition if you apply and fully disclose.

H1b to F1 or Green Card?

If you marry the most simplistic is adjustment based on spouse based immediate relative petition.

I have the employment authorizating and SSN while my case is still being considered.What type of immigrant documentation is that

What is the employment based upon. adjustment, asylum, DACA that is what your status pending.

My EB-3 visa priority date is september 2009 and on current status in USCIS.

Yes you can use another attorney. You will need some assistance from the employer that was the petitioner.

You can withdraw but you should discuss with your current employer's attorney before withdrawing.

I filled i130 on may 2014 it has received may 8 2014 .how long does take the time approved it .may i get any answer pls

It usually takes from 6 moths to a year if properly filed.

Attorney's are permitted to set their own fees. Some have an initial consult fee and some do not. Some apply the initial consult fee to the legal...

What documents we need to submit in order for him to come and live here with us in the USA?

You need to start the process with a relative petition. If you become a US citizen the process may be faster.

If the USCIS can't make an appointment with us at this time, can we do infopass?

You may make an infopass appointment at anytime.

RFE for I-485 --request the proof of petitioner/sponsor's current income

The sponsor must fully complete and submit the affidavit of support.