After getting married and living together finding out my husband is an alcoholic and refuse to get help,so he abondon me?

Help with what? I don't see a question. Hire a lawyer.

My friend recently divorced her husband in November 2012. At that time, and now, her husband has owned several properties,

If the property was divided in the divorce, it is over. She may have been entitled to some of the value before the final judgment but if it's...

Can i get my license back?

You will have to comply with whatever DMV says.

Does any notation of this go on criminal record?

It will show up n your record but not as a criminal offense.

How can I get my son released from drug court without spending time in jail?

All that he has to do is ask to opt out, but the judge has the option to give jail if he does.

I got summone for using phone and driving and i missed my date. what can i do?

Hire an attorney and deal with it so they don't suspend your driver's license.

What is term #3 probation violation? I know I need an attorney. But I am having a major problem finding one in Lassen co. CA.

I think that you should hire private counsel since you were unhappy with the public defender.

Pardons are almost impossible to obtain anywhere.

4 kids, only 207 per month in child support ??? Will it be worth while to try to change the amount?

If he has gotten raises you are entitled to modify the amount. The reason your support is so low is the time share amount.

Do I get my $40000 back or is that not a possibility?

The deed should be in both names if you bought it together. If it's in both names, don't sign until you get your money.