Amended returns: My mother withdraw 40k from her 401k in 2011. She deposited the money to her Credit Union that same year (2011)

As you found out, 'do it yourself' ends up costing more than if you hired a pro to begin with. Hire a CPA or tax attorney now.

Do you have to pay any federal, state or government taxes when you cash out and close your personal bank account ?

Generally, No taxes due as long as taxes were already paid on the income. IRAs and deferred products may have taxes due.

Should I get a lawyer or go through a mediator for divorce. My finances are limited ?

You can't afford not to have an attorney. Hire an attorney ASAP. You can find a local attorney here on Avvo

Yes, it is up to the Judge if your cousin go to jail on the spot or not. Make sure your cousin is represented by an attorney, especially since this...

Husband just got overnights back last week and son tells me he has a 'girl sleeping in his room'?

Are you still married? Florida does not have a legal separation ( technically) so I'm not sure what stage you are at and if the husbands...

How can I protect myself in my prenup?

This is common for couple that have a good amount of assets. Have an attorney review the document before you sign and you will most likely be OK,...

How do I get the IRS from controlling my withholdings?

Mortgage interest is still allowable. Obtain a W4 from your employer as long as you are up to date on your taxes.

How to file back taxes using ITIN number

Just hire a tax professional to prepare this years and past years taxes. Then worry about the IRS

My question is regarding the ability to give a cash gift, without incurring a tax on the receiver.

I suggest not to 'play around' with who's getting how much and transferring etc. There is generally no tax on receiving the gift.

Am I liable for the tax obligation from the business I work for?

Yes, the IRS MAY go after you under the trust fund.