I haven't been working for a few months and I don't have the money to pay for all of this, what can I do?

You should have an attorney look over the debt and determine whether the medical bills ever went to suit or not.

90 days for a second VOP is a bit steep but so was 5 weekends for the first VOP. The judge has discretion and obviously is a very tough judge. ...

Can I get the uninsured motorist amount as well?

No. Any UM money would come from your own policy and not the other drivers.

What can I do to handle this situation any wisdom

Do not speak with the recovery number. Speak with a local attorney and make sure that it is the Court that is attempting to reach you. I doubt it.

I was wondering how to make sure that once he gets a job instead of being self employed and to make him pay more

No. You can always ask the Court to impute income if he is self employed and deliberately making less than he is capable of. Also, when he gets a...

Am I getting credit or not

The only person that you should be asking is your own attorney.

What punishments can my mother and I expect my brother to be facing?

Speak with a local juvenile attorney in your area. The sanctions can greatly vary especially if he is charged as an adult.

Do they have a case or do I

The lease is in your name. The matter involving the friend has nothing to do with the lease. You likely had no right to keep their money.

When I do get overnights, will it be likely for me to lower my child support payments?

You can always request to modify the child support but there will need to be a substantial reason often called a change in circumstance to do so. ...

How do I get and or take a paternity test to prove I am not the father of a child that was born & lives in another state.

You would have to petition the Court where the child resides since he or she would also need to be swabbed for the DNA test. One would think that...