Can I file against my former employer for failure to notify cancelation of health insurance?

I'm with attorney Lassen on this, if you were still employed at the date of the visit your coverage was in force and should pay. Get back to HR.

How do I sue my insurance co. for changing my policy w/o my consent?

Yes stay in touch with your attorney. As for 5 years of loyalty, insurance companies don't like you or feel any loyatly towards their clients....

Am I responsible for car payment?

I don't understand you question. It sounds like the insurance on the van didn't pay for the other party's damages. You need to take your documents...

I would follow attorney Stone's excellent advice and make a complaint.

This depends and you should see an attorney rather than post about it.

You could try but you would have an uphill battle. They would argue accord and satisfaction, meaning they paid you, you accepted the payment and...

Can you press charges on someone and have the court have him pay for damages?

You're confusing a civil action with a criminal one. The state has no interest in this minor incident, no crime was committed. But you have damages...

Can I purshase a car in my name and have the insurance in my brother in laws name?

I have no clue why you would do this. If you can't drive yet why have a car? If your brother in law insures it, if he could, and crashes it then...

If I am only separated how can I enforce an active duty military spouse to pay child support and insurance?

You need to file for divorce. Then you get a marriage settlement agreement that is enforceable. I would imagine that the ex will have to pay...

I'd get an attorney involved to get any real interest from Macy's.