Lawsuits are expensive and time consuming. You have no damages to sue for. See if you can get a refund and then shop somewhere else.

I would add that he can simply ban your Bf from the property for any, or no reason........................

Yes, it's "legal." Just as it is legal for you to quit and go find somewhere that is more accommodating of your schedule.

As an at will employee your employer can fire you for any, or no reason, and here they have a very good reason.

You can ask. They can say yes, or no. I think your question is whether if you filed suit against them, what would happen, and I would say you would...

You could be administratively separated (chaptered) or face other consequences for producing porn. ...................

Of course not. What part about "sexting" a minor sounds like a good idea to you? .............................

You can use AVVO or Google to search for lawyers who do Criminal Appellate work.....................

Can I be charged with both assault and battery? I was charged with assault and battery. Respectfully, that answer the question. Time to lawyer up.

While you pose this as a question, you really haven't asked a question. Obviously, your employer has spoken to their HR and legal departments and...