I need to get out of the National guard?

Unlikely to happen based on these facts. Financial hardship is not a grounds to get out. You made a commitment and will be held to that commitment....

You can sue her, and there have been some successful defamation suits in this area. But the issue is whether she has any money and, if you win, she...

This is not a legal question. You will have to do some research.

What can I do to ensure my child’s father cannot have visits?

There is no way to keep him from seeking visitation or custody. Whether he can get either will be up to the court.

Can I sue a company for employees physically harassing me? full detail.

Yes you can sue. No I do not think you will win.

Is this a scam?

It is a common scam posted about on this site. Do not respond.

Yes it is illegal. I would submit you have other reasons to discipline him.

In general a guilty plea waives all motions, but some states allow "conditional" guilty pleas. Speak to a local defense attorney.

Yes this could be illegal. If the cops contact you don't make any statements until you speak to a local defense lawyer.

Do I need a lawyer before pressing charges on someone who was caught on camera that stole my stimulus check ?

Have you contacted the police? They may be able to assist and get restitution.