I am not sure what your concern is. None of this is unusual.

No, but you can quit using Facebook..................

I don't see how the bar is responsible for what someone else did.

Unless you can prove the property owner breached a legal duty they owe you, they have no liability.

No and no. Follow the recommendation above.

If you are charged with a crime you retain a defense attorney.

This is a general Q&A site. You have not asked a question.

Who you date is up to your parents. A 25 year old who is attracted to children should seek mental health help.

Yes he can.......................................................................

Every day in every courtroom in America domestic violence victims try to "drop" charges.They can't.