Just file a divorce action and address everything there.

I am sorry, but your post does not make any sense.

If the 16 year old claims they were raped, the 19 year old will probably be charged.

This is a general Q&A site. No one is going to reach out to you to work, especially for free.

If you think this is expensive and time consuming, wait until you try and sue them. You have not identified any grounds for a lawsuit.

It has no impact on the ticket.....................................

Not sure what dinged or singed a check means. But if this is a settlement check only your lawyer can answer that question.

None of us knows the details of your case like your lawyer does, so that is who you need to ask.

Unless you have an attorney, you need to appear in person.

Can I be charged? I have been charged. That is the answer to your question. Now lawyer up.