How do i get an court order to visit my elderly mother, stepfather is making it diffulct

If he truly evokes abusiveness towards her, notify Adult Protective Services. Consider a guardianship action for her, as well.

Is adoption or permanent guardianship the better avenue?

A temp guardianship issued by the probate court will typically not need renewal and will remain in effect unless challenged. I'd just start with...

My Army husband has stopped my tricare for me and our 2 kids along with the car ins. Can he do this? We are divorcing in CA.

He can't do that--make sure his chain of command knows about it; it'll get resolved quickly.

I am a 56 year old woman who has been common law married to a 66 year old man for 25 years. he is a veteran and not in the best

If your state does not recognize common law marriage, then neither will the VA.

Sure--absolutely! Just make sure its drafted and executed correctly

Is there a legal way to take away the financial authority of a elder parent because of a family member borrowing money ?

Yes, that can be done through a conservatorship.

If my mother gives her kids money from the sale of her home then at some point she has to enter a nursing home does that

Kelly nailed it--your question really revolves around the applicable lookback period in your mother's estate--get a consult w/ a local elder law...

My mom just applied for medicaid and I am worried about the"look back" period. What do I do?

I agree w/ Ms. Johnson--and if your mother is on hospice now, Medicaid may no longer be a concern. Get a consult w/ a local elder law attorney.

Ww2 vetMy dad passed 2013 and we tried to get him 100 disability w.the evaluation 5 years ago but granted him40percent however

You had one year from the time of his death to seek to be substituted on any appeal he might have had ongoing with the VA concerning his rating. ...

Send an online request to Nat'l Archives through their website--they can send you a certificate of discharge--takes about 3 weeks and typically ...