HOW DO I COLLECT ON EX HUSBANDS MILITARY RETIREMENT?

You do it via a special order knows as a QDRO--get a family law attorney who knows how to write QDROs to assist you.

Our son has dual citizenship by adoption here and Ukraine. He wants to return to Ukraine.

If he is an adult and is mentally impaired, you may wish to consider a guardianship.

Self protection

Your cell phone and leave it at that.

Need to know if I will lose my insurance and money if my disabled veteran husband divorces me and remarries.

You need a family law attorney. Much of your question depends upon the length of the marriage and its span while he was in service and that, in...

If a Military Sargeant is sending me money to my account for open heart surgery for his childs bill. Can I get in trouble ?

I concur w/ Mr. Ezold's instincts--sounds like a scam or you may be unwittingly clearing money for someone.

Two paths to what you seek and both are hard--apply through VA for an Earlier Effective Date (and that will most probably require a determination...

Due to high property taxes, sell home, put dad into nursing home, pay expenses, and still apply for medicaid when well runs dry?

There are other ways to accomplish Medicaid eligibility than simple spend-down. Get a consult w/ a local elder law attorney so a real program can...

Can a parent sell the family farm to the kids without major penalties or taxes for either party?

You will really need an involved consult with a local estate attorney--the question requires such attention to detail that it can't come near to...

Can a spouse spenddown assets to qualify for Medicaid by transferring assets to an immediate annuity FBO the community spouse.

Maybe--if the transfer is to a Medicaid-compliant SPIA. That's a very specific type of annuity and you'd best have a local elder law attorney...

How does one manage moving, living costs under SSI limits?

A Special Needs trust would be one option--get a consult w/ a local attorney that understands these trusts.