How do I answer the question "Have you ever been convicted of a crime" if I have received a motion for appropriate relief?

Looks like you've asked this twice. Please see response to your other question posted.

How do I answer the question of "Have you ever been convicted of a crime" if I have received a motion for appropriate relief?

I think you've answered your own question. You were convicted. You can explain further, and most applications allow you to explain mitigating...

Can I move into my now deceased mothers home since I payed some bills?

Your paying bills is really not relevant and that alone does not entitle you to move in. My next thought goes to who owns the home. But you state...

Depending on your local law, of course (and gambling is illegal in NC), you're not going to be able to seek relief in court over an unlawful bet....

What do I do my insurance company is asking for the check back

You can confirm the facts and law with a lawyer, but there is no "finders keepers" in the law. If the insurer made a mistake and the check was...

What can I do to stop harassing calls?

I agree with the other answers here, and the annoyance probably isn't worth hiring an attorney over, but you could also contact the NC attorney...

What should I do?

I believe that you have posted this question twice. However, you should contact the NC Department of Insurance and discuss this with them.

What should I do?

You can also call the NC Dept. of Insurance and file a complaint or request assistance.

I have never seen or heard of anything like this happening. Get a different court reporter, issue a subpoena, and when you begin your deposition,...

If she was on the lease (or even if she wasn't but the two of you had a separate contract for payment of rent), and you paid her share of the rent,...