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As the founder and managing partner of Ellis Family Law, Gray Ellis has spent more than two decades guiding individuals and families through their most critical legal challenges. He is Board Certified by the North Carolina Board of Legal Specialization, a distinction earned by less than 2% of family law attorneys in the state, and has been recognized by multiple attorney rating organizations for his work.
Gray’s personal experience as a parent who has gone through a separation enhances his ability to support clients facing family law disputes. He understands firsthand the emotional and legal complexities of divorce, child custody, and financial support, which strengthens his advocacy on their behalf.
Dedicated to community involvement, Gray is a Board Member of Meals on Wheels Durham and the founder of the Feed the Need Gala, an event focused on raising awareness and funding to combat senior nutrition challenges.
In his free time, he enjoys playing tennis and golf, traveling, and attending ACC sporting events.
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State: North Carolina
Acquired: 2002
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Posted by Michael | September 30, 2015 | Hired Attorney | Family
child custody
In 2012 I hired Gray Ellis as my family lawyer in a child custody case. He was able to get me more time that I had originally agreed too. Throughout the case, Gray kept in contact with me. If I called and Gray wasn't able to answer me at that moment, contact was made within 2 hours during regular bus...
Posted by anonymous | September 22, 2015 | Hired Attorney | Family
A true rarity!
Over the course of my child custody and support legal battles, I have worked extensively with both Gray and Autumn. They are a true rarity in this profession. Ellis Family Law has always put my legal and financial interests above their own bottom line. If you have legal matters pending in family c...
Posted by Nav | December 09, 2014 | Family
Exceptionally Skilled
Gray is an exceptionally skilled attorney. Among the many things that makes Gray such an outstanding attorney is the attention to detail that is given to each individual. Gray takes an analytical approach and always has the client's best interests in her counsel. My personal experience with Gray h...
Posted by Audrey F. | October 27, 2014 | Family
Ellis Family Law was my "Wild Card"
As I reflect on the recent journey I experienced with Ellis Family Law my emotions run high. They truly were my “wild card”. The team understood the dilemma I face and provided everything but a cookie-cutter response/solution. The team gave me an overview of why they were different than the opposing ...
Posted by Charlene | April 07, 2014 | Family
Professional and Trustworthy
The attorneys actually found other cases to support my situation for the best possible outcome. With their "thinking outside the box" method I was able to get a better outcome for monthly child support and an agreement that the out of pocket expenses would be shared based on each party's percenta...
"I have practiced family law in Durham as a colleague of Gray Ellis for many years. I have worked with Gray and the attorneys in his office many times whether as opposing counsel on a family law case or by serving as mediator for attorneys in his office. Gray is committed to providing quality representation to each client, and his firm is always pleasant, dedicated and professional to work with. Ellis Family Law is a solid choice for clients with family law matters in the Triangle area."
"I am impressed with Mr. Ellis's thoughtful advice and answers to legal questions on Avvo. He has an in-depth understanding of the law and an ability to communicate legal concepts clearly and effectively. I endorse this lawyer!"
"Gray Ellis and his firm are highly professional and very capable handling any family law issues like divorce, alimony, custody and division of marital property. I have practice Family Law in Durham for thirty years and have had many cases where the opposing party has been represented by Gray and his firm. They are dedicated to the interests of their clients but seek to minimize aggravation and bitterness while reaching a fair solution. He and his lawyers are extremely capable in trial when settlement cannot be reached. This firm has an excellent reputation in the legal community and its clients speak well of their experiences with the attorneys and support personnel of Ellis Family Law."
"Gray is a very knowledgeable and detailed family law attorney. He always stays up to date (if not ahead) of the latest trends, case law and research in the family law practice. I often call upon Gray for his advice and guidance when dealing with issues I may be uncertain of or am seeking confirmation about a certain issue I am dealing with. Without hesitation I have referred and will continue to refer cases to Gray and his firm."
"I endorse Gray. He is a highly skilled attorney that is well respected in the legal community."
"I endorse this lawyer!! Attorney Gray Ellis is one of the most competent and efficient domestic attorneys in the Triangle Area. His firm is normally the first that I refer if I am unable to assist those in need. If I had a personal domestic matter, I would retain his services."
"I endorse this lawyer. I've referred several clients and friends to Mr. Ellis for his expertise, compassion, and persistent advocacy. Should I have need, Mr. Ellis is likely my first choice for a family law attorney."
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2021
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2020
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2019
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2018
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2017
Best of Durham, Durham Magazine
2017
Torch Award, Better Business Bureau - Eastern North Carolina
2017
North Carolina Leaders in Law Honoree, Lawyers Weekly
2016
AV Rated, Martindale-Hubbell
2016
Best of Durham, Durham Magazine
2015
Best Attorneys, Durham Magazine
2015
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2014
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2012
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2011
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2010
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2010
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2007
Board Certified Specialist - Family Law, North Carolina State Bar Board of Legal Specialization
2008 - Present
Partner, Ellis Family Law, PLLC
2002 - Present
North Carolina Bar AssociationMember
2002 - Present
Durham County Bar AssociationMember
2002 - Present
North Carolina Academy of Trial LawyersMember
2014 - 2016
North Carolina Bar Association, Family Law SectionChair
sole custody with support and unequal division of assets in my clients favor
2001
JD - Juris Doctor
N/A
BA - Bachelor of Arts
2015
Same Sex Divorce Issues
2012
Temporary Hearings
2011
Commencing Family Law Actions
2009
NCC School Of Law
2008
Unitarian Universalist Church
2002
Divorce Clinic
2002
Equitable Distribution
2024
2011
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