Should I file for the equitable distribution and Spousal Support? or request a trial at the non contested divorce hearng ?

The most important thing is to ensure you have claims for alimony, post separation support and division of property filed with the court prior to...

How can we make an official arrangement for Child Custody in an amicable situation without the use of the courts in NC?

You can absolutely have a parenting agreement that is a contract as opposed to a court order. You can also agree in that contract that you are free...

What can be done? What can I file to show custody wasn't being contested and that I cannot afford it?

A judge has wide leeway in determining the best interests of the child and in setting forth methods to help determine what those best interests...

What can I do to gain back primary custody of my child?

I agree with the previous post. If the December order was for permanent custody, you must wait for a substantial change in circumstances. If your...

If I marry someone incarcerated and is not able to pay child support will I be help resonsible?

Regardless of incarceration, unless you have specifically agreed, in writing, to undertake a child support obligation for a step-child, you cannot...

If by custody you mean whether or not your mother-in-law can ask a judge that your children live with her, it depends. When parents argue over...

What are our rights?

Congratulations on the birth of your son! There are no hard and fast rules regarding custody and visitation based on the age of the child. However,...

In the state of NC can alimony be reduced due to health issues or decrease in salary

That depends on whether alimony was established in a separation agreement or in a court order. It is much likelier to be modifiable in a court...

Grandparents rights

Grandparents do have rights under certain circumstances in the state of North Carolina. You do not say the child lives elsewhere, but be aware, the...

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Should I advised a attorney about this issue?

Hiring an attorney would be a great place to start. You certainly should tell the attorney about what you have learned regarding the girlfriend. An...