Can i convert F3 visa petition to Asylum?

You cannot convert the petition. She can only apply for asylum if she is in the United States.

Deportation

Sounds like you need to go speak to an immigration attorney ASAP.

How can I correct my marital status on my U.S immigrant visa?

Generally your best option is to try to contact the embassy or consulate that issued your visa. However, you should probably speak to an...

Can I apply for citizenship after being outside of USA more than 180 days?

You should speak to an immigration attorney who can properly advise you on your situation.

Q1: Can I file VAWA Q2) should I contest my marriage annulment to convert it divorce in the court so that i can file VAWA.

You need to speak to an immigration attorney who can advise you appropriately.

I'm 15 years old and i will be 16 in 3 moths and my boyfriend is 19. i might be pregnant, can he go to jail?

Your boyfriend should contact an attorney immediately.

Was I convicted?

Without knowing any more, shoplifting is not a felony. It also sounds like your charge was dismissed and you were not convicted. If you have...

What should I do

Ask the judge to reconsider appointing you an attorney. If they do not appoint you someone then you can hire someone.

How do I represent myself if I can't get a judge to reconsider a court appointed lawyer

If you cannot afford an attorney, please tell the judge you have changed your mind and ask him to appoint you an attorney.

Yes you can travel. However you may need a visa to enter certain countries. You should contact an attorney if you have any other questions.