Steven B. Epstein

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Steven B. Epstein

5.0
Rating: 10.0

Licensed for 35 years

Family Lawyer at Raleigh, NC
Practice Areas: Family, Divorce & Separation, Child Custody

Po Box 1801, Raleigh, NC

About Steven

Biography

Board-certified specialist in family law, as certified by the NC State Bar

Practice Areas

3

Practice Areas

Family 34%

12 years | 100 cases

34%
Child Custody 33%

33%
Divorce and Separation 33%

I began practicing family law in 2014, following my own personal 2-year odyssey through the family court justice system. During that process, I felt a calling to help lead others through the tunnel from which I had just emerged. I am a passionate advocate for the rights of my family law clients and the well-being of their children. My goal is to help each client find their better tomorrow for themselves and their children.

12 years | 100 cases

33%

Fees and Rates

Cost

Retainer

Sometimes


Payment Methods

  • Cash
  • Check
  • Credit Card

Licenses

Licensed in North Carolina for 35 years

State: North Carolina

Acquired: 1990

Active

No misconduct found

Location

Poyner Spruill LLP

Po Box 1801, Raleigh, NC, 27602-1801

poynerspruill.com/for-family/family-law/

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Steven B. Epstein's Reviews

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5.0 /5.0

27 Client Reviews

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Posted by Angela | August 18, 2025 | Hired Attorney | Divorce & Separation

An expert with complicated and high conflict cases

From Day One, Steve never wavered in either his support or his representation. Not only was he meticulous in his preparation and detail, but I also felt supported through the entire process. None of my concerns were ever dismissed or diminished. Yes, he is a brilliant strategist. He also skillfull...y uncovered a broad and complicated marital estate, shining light on assets and streams of revenue that had heretofore been kept hidden from me. Steve was the force that could not be mitigated, manipulated, or managed, which is just what I needed to ensure a fair settlement. I have already been recommending him to friends who find themselves in need of such a staunch advocate, and will continue to do so. I am eternally grateful for his representation!

Posted by anonymous | March 24, 2021 | Hired Attorney | Divorce & Separation

prepared, creative, and child-centered

I was thrown into the custody and divorce process completely unawares -- my wife obtained an emergency order removing the kids from my custody even before there was any talk of separation! Throughout that traumatic process (and the parental alienation that followed) Steve was really a solid rock. He ...was always clear about what the law was, what my options were, and what the costs and benefits of those options were. He also gave me really sound advice about how to stay on the right side of the law *and* stay in the court's good graces. As a legal tactician, Steve is first-rate. More than once, he would call me with "an inspiration I had at the gym" that ended up being exactly the right move for my case. He is a creative and thoughtful advocate -- who obviously does a lot of off-the-clock thinking about how to best serve his clients' interests. Steve's team (mostly his paralegal Patti, but also his assistants) made sure that we were always prepared for everything the other side tried to throw at us. At each of the two hearings in my case, that preparation really showed -- we caught the other side flat-footed or we had just the right response ready when they tried to catch us out. Every single minute of trial prep proved well worth it in the end. MOST IMPORTANTLY OF ALL, Steve always always always kept the children's best interests as the center of our legal strategy. Sometimes that meant giving up on some point of personal pride or slight from the other side (which we might well have had the upper hand on, legally) but it also powered his zeal and tenacity when it came to the really important issues. Even when it came to property division, Steve's focus on the best interests of the children had a clear impact on the judge. I feel very lucky to have found Steve as my advocate in what ended up being a traumatic and unnecessarily complicated custody and property fight. The best thing would have been for my ex to be reasonable -- but given that that wasn't in the cards, I really believe Steve's advocacy and counsel were the next best thing.

Posted by Mike | May 06, 2019 | Hired Attorney | Divorce & Separation

Steve Epstein ... two thumbs up!

It is difficult to put into words my appreciation for Steve's knowledge of the law, passion for his trade, sincerity of his counsel, care for his client, unmatched preparation and expertise in court! When I separated and divorced years ago, I made a big mistake by not retaining counsel to ...help me the legal issues. Her attorney drafted a poorly written separation agreement in which I signed without gaining legal advice (never do that!!!). The document had vagueness written into the language of the separation agreement that could cost me hundreds of thousands of dollars. I contacted Steve for a consultation and he was very thorough with all of the dynamics that existed and did not present a fairy tale ending, but rather a list of options that may occur. He walked me through the entire process from the legal paperwork to the potential trial. Steve then suggested that I could always seek the advice of another attorney, but after listening to his strategy and sensing his professionalism and confidence, I did not need to talk to anyone else...one of the best decisions that I have ever made! In the end, my ex-wife turned down several settlement offers and we were forced to trial. Steve was absolutely brilliant in the courtroom. His preparation was unmatched and he delivered an unbelievable presentation that left me speechless. After the judge ruled in our favor, people were swarming Steve to get his business card as they wanted what I had! Thanks Steve for everything! You are the best!

Posted by Jamie | December 25, 2018 | Hired Attorney | Family

Highly recommended, held in highest regard

Steve is a very knowledgeable attorney, outstanding in family law. He has an in-depth knowledge of the process, procedures and potential outcomes when negotiating a separation agreement and property settlement. He truly understands what you are going through and can guide you through the process, as... one who has been there. He was always on, responsive and utterly professional in his communication and guidance. Due to multiple circumstances, we came down to the wire for negotiating a final settlement prior to the 2018 TCJA changes took effect, and he was able to guide me through the process, including mediation, to arrive at an agreeable solution, in record time. He offered sound advice in a time when we aren’t always able to think perfectly for ourselves. I highly recommend him and greatly appreciate his counsel during this time.

Posted by Darin | October 24, 2018 | Hired Attorney | Child Custody

I wish I could add another star!

I can’t overstate the quality of Steve’s work or his dedication to his clients. Steve was very prompt with responses to any questions I had as well as being very quick to forward information to me as soon as he had it. What I respect most about Steve is that he focuses on the well-being of the chil...dren. He stated on day one that custody would be his priority which aligned perfectly with my goals. He also understands and empathizes with his clients which makes the entire process much more bearable. Steve was my second attorney and I wish I would have heard about him earlier. When I first hired Steve, I had been separated from my spouse for nearly 6 months and I got to see my child for one over-night visit every other weekend and I was allowed to take her to dinner once or twice per week for 2-hour visits. I was living in an apartment and paying my own bills as well as the bills of my spouse. I struggled to make ends meet and the situation was not sustainable. My predicament was in large part due to my lack of knowledge of my own rights. Steve changed all of that. He was very quick to rectify the situation by educating me of what my rights actually are and he was able to negotiate a much more equal settlement for me. With Steve’s help and expertise, I now have 50% custody of my daughter and our relationship is much stronger and more substantial! I am also back in the marital home which is the only real home my daughter has ever known. Without Steve, I don’t know that I would have ever gotten 50% custody and the home probably would have been lost. Working with Steve permanently changed the course of my life and that of my daughter’s significantly and for the better! Hiring Steve Epstein was one of the best decisions I have ever made!

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Steven B. Epstein's Lawyer Endorsements

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Jeffrey Marshall

Family lawyer | Jan 12

Relationship: Opposing Counsel on matter

"I endorse Steve. He is an excellent attorney who strives to obtain the best possible outcome for his clients. He takes the time to understand what each client's goals are and then does the hard work necessary to achieve those results."

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Rose Stout

Divorce and separation lawyer | Jan 09

Relationship: Opposing Counsel on matter

"Steve and I have worked together and against each other. He is very competent and thorough in his representation of clients."

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Jennifer Parser

Family lawyer | Feb 16

Relationship: Co-worker

"I endorse this lawyer. I have referred a client with a complex divorce and custody matter to Steve and the client has been extremely satisfied."

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Experience

Rating:  10.0 (Superb)

Honors

2025

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

2024

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

2021

AV Rated, Martindale-Hubbell

2021

Legal Elite - Family Law, N.C. Business Magazine

2019

Family Law Trailblazer Award (one of 14 in nation), National Law Journal

2017

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyer Magazine

2016

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

2015

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

2013

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

2012

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

2011

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

2010

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

2009

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2008

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2007

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

2006

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

1990

J.D. with Highest Honors, University of North Carolina

1990

Order of the Coif, University of North Carolina

Work Experience

2010 - Present

Partner, Poyner Spruill LLP

1996 - 2010

Partner, Hunton & Williams

1994 - 1996

Visiting Assistant Professor and Director of Legal Writing, University of Illinois College of Law

1992 - 1994

Associate, Fuller, Becton, Billings & Slifkin, P.A.

1990 - 1992

Law Clerk, U.S. District Judge W. Earl Britt

Associations

2014 - 2017

North Carolina Bar Association

Board of Governors

2013 - 2018

Wake County Bar Association

Nominations Committee

2011 - 2014

NC Association of Defense Attorneys

Board of Directors

Sample of Legal Cases

Mueller v. Mueller, 18 CVD 2095 (Wake County District Court)

Our client obtained 50-50 custody of his daughter

Cole v. Reasoner, 13 CVD 14732 (Wake County District Court)

Our client obtained 50-50 custody of her son

Lowery v. Lowery, 15 CVD 1542 (Alamance County District Court)

Our client obtained 50/50 custody of his daughters

Ovando v. Bowen, 16 CVS 1269 (Wake County Superior Court)

$350,000 settlement for our client

Severn Peanut Company v. Industrial Fumigant Co., 807 F.3d 88 (4th Cir. 2015)

Complete victory for client

Piazza v. Brannon, Case No. 12 CVS 14344 (Wake County, NC)

Won $250,000 jury verdict for our clients

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Education

1990

University of North Carolina, Chapel Hill

JD - Juris Doctor

1987

University of North Carolina, Chapel Hill

BA - Bachelor of Arts

Speaking Engagements

2017

UNC Festival of Legal Learning

Taking the Risk and Reaping the Reward: Trial Strategies for the Not-So Faint of Heart

2016

Annual Review

Civil Case Law Update

Languages

English

Activity

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