After nearly 25 years in law practice, I decided to migrate into the area of family law, where I now regularly advise clients and represent them in litigation regarding separation and divorce, child custody and support, alimony and post-separation support, and equitable distribution. I began practicing family law in 2014, following my own personal 2-year odyssey through the family court justice system. During that process, I felt a calling to help lead others through the tunnel from which I had just emerged. In 2020, I was recognized by the NC State Bar as a board-certified specialist in family law. I am a passionate advocate for the rights of my family law clients and the well-being of their children. My goal is to help each client find their better tomorrow for themselves and their children.
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12 years | 100 cases
12 years | 100 cases
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State: North Carolina
Acquired: 1990
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Posted by Jennifer | July 07, 2025 | Hired Attorney | Divorce & Separation
BEST family law lawyer around!
Going through a divorce was one of the most challenging experiences of my life, but I'm so grateful I had Steven Epstein with Poyner Spruill by my side. His expertise in family law was evident from the start, and he was able to explain the legal process in a way that made sense to me. Beyond his lega...
Posted by anonymous | March 24, 2021 | Hired Attorney | Divorce & Separation
prepared, creative, and child-centered
I was thrown into the custody and divorce process completely unawares -- my wife obtained an emergency order removing the kids from my custody even before there was any talk of separation! Throughout that traumatic process (and the parental alienation that followed) Steve was really a solid rock. He ...
Posted by Coleman | August 14, 2020 | Hired Attorney
Professional and extremely knowledgeable
Steve represented me better than I could have ever imagined. My opinions were valued and my doubts were always reassured. My nerves were calmed and the process was always explained. Steve fought hard for me. He went above and beyond and did everything he could to ensure a great outcome. I couldn't ha...
Posted by Mike | May 06, 2019 | Hired Attorney | Divorce & Separation
Steve Epstein ... two thumbs up!
It is difficult to put into words my appreciation for Steve's knowledge of the law, passion for his trade, sincerity of his counsel, care for his client, unmatched preparation and expertise in court! When I separated and divorced years ago, I made a big mistake by not retaining counsel to ...
Posted by Jamie | December 25, 2018 | Hired Attorney | Family
Highly recommended, held in highest regard
Steve is a very knowledgeable attorney, outstanding in family law. He has an in-depth knowledge of the process, procedures and potential outcomes when negotiating a separation agreement and property settlement. He truly understands what you are going through and can guide you through the process, as...
"I endorse Steve. He is an excellent attorney who strives to obtain the best possible outcome for his clients. He takes the time to understand what each client's goals are and then does the hard work necessary to achieve those results."
"Steve and I have worked together and against each other. He is very competent and thorough in his representation of clients."
"I endorse this lawyer. I have referred a client with a complex divorce and custody matter to Steve and the client has been extremely satisfied."
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2021
AV Rated, Martindale-Hubbell
2021
Legal Elite - Family Law, N.C. Business Magazine
2019
Family Law Trailblazer Award (one of 14 in nation), National Law Journal
2017
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2016
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1990
J.D. with Highest Honors, University of North Carolina
1990
Order of the Coif, University of North Carolina
2010 - Present
Partner, Poyner Spruill LLP
1996 - 2010
Partner, Hunton & Williams
1994 - 1996
Visiting Assistant Professor and Director of Legal Writing, University of Illinois College of Law
1992 - 1994
Associate, Fuller, Becton, Billings & Slifkin, P.A.
1990 - 1992
Law Clerk, U.S. District Judge W. Earl Britt
2014 - 2017
North Carolina Bar AssociationBoard of Governors
2013 - 2018
Wake County Bar AssociationNominations Committee
2011 - 2014
NC Association of Defense AttorneysBoard of Directors
Our client obtained 50-50 custody of his daughter
Our client obtained 50-50 custody of her son
Our client obtained 50/50 custody of his daughters
$350,000 settlement for our client
Complete victory for client
Won $250,000 jury verdict for our clients
1990
JD - Juris Doctor
1987
BA - Bachelor of Arts
2017
Taking the Risk and Reaping the Reward: Trial Strategies for the Not-So Faint of Heart
2016
Civil Case Law Update
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Legal Answers
Does she have a right to compensation from the house?
23 Mar 2016
Can my ex just show up to public events because our child is present?
03 Mar 2016